LOVE & ROMANCE MEME

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LOVE & ROMANCE MEME

Love is in the air and Valentine's Day is fast approaching, and we all love shipping nonsense so, I mean, why beat around the bush? Use this meme to talk ships and romance and maybe you'll even find your characters a Valentine. 💘

Name:
What do they look for in a person?: What kind of people do they fall for? Do they have a type?
What do they find romantic?: Describe their idea of romance.
Who do they have a crush on?: List 'em!
Are they seeing someone right now?: Yes or no, and how is it going?
What are they like in a relationship?: How do they behave in a relationship?
Anything else?: What other romance-themed things do you want to share about your character?
GIF Challenge: Post a romantic gif!!!

<b>Name:</b> <b>What do they look for in a person?:</b> What kind of people do they fall for? Do they have a type? <b>What do they find romantic?:</b> Describe their idea of romance. <b>Who do they have a crush on?:</b> List 'em! <b>Are they seeing someone right now?:</b> Yes or no, and how is it going? <b>What are they like in a relationship?:</b> How do they behave in a relationship? <b>Anything else?:</b> What other romance-themed things do you want to share about your character? <b>GIF Challenge:</b> Post a romantic gif!!!

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[quinning]

this meme is proving to be a valuable exercise in character development but DAAAANG IF IT ISN'T HARD AS HECK

[goosemods]

I'M SORRY Marin shouldn't let me write memes I always get overambitious. :( I NEED TO FILL IT OUT TOO BUT I KEEP HAVING TO DO OTHER THINGS.

Ennis Harper (Walkthrough for Romance Route)

[sheepish]

Name: Ennis Harper
What do they look for in a person?:
Someone who likes rats and won't make fun of his myomancy or think it's weird. :^(

He likes nice and kind and sweet people. (But he also had a huge crush on Moaning Myrtle so Results May Vary. As long as they're nice, kind, and sweet from his perspective.) They don't have to follow the rules or make good grades or be invested their school clubs or anything, they just need to have a good heart. People who are calm/having calming auras are appealing to him, but he also finds himself drawn to bolder/more outgoing personalities. HE WANTS SOMEONE WHO WILL INITIATE HAND-HOLDING FIRST IN THE BEGINNING SO HE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO IT. I also think he's more likely to have strong romantic feelings for someone his year or a year younger just because he prefers a more chaste romance and he feels like seniors are older, more experienced, and have different wants and expectations regarding the physical aspects of their relationships. He's not into the casual hookups a lot of them seem to have going on.

But lbr, he'd probably like anyone who likes him and doesn't mind his weirdness. Part of his draw and dedication to Myrtle was because she was one of the first girls that showed interest in him, ignoring that she showed interest in several other boys as well. Another huge part of it was that she was lonely and sad and he could relate; that's also why he's drawn to Anon, because he projects that feeling of loneliness onto them/it as well.

What do they find romantic?:
Sitting together quietly. Ennis likes being read to because he loves books and stories, but he's not a strong reader. (Whenever he's been called on in class to read aloud, it's excruciating. He also has a hard time reading some journal entries and comments because of kids' shitty handwriting.) He thinks the Grotto is super romantic and he'd like to spend time just sitting in nature.

Also, someone taking interest in his hobbies and wanting to help him is TOTALLY ROMANTIC, THE ABSOLUTE BEST. The best way to get him to open up is to have him talk about his hobbies and interests. And someone wanting to join him or help him or watch him or WHATEVER, AS LONG AS IT'S POSITIVE INTEREST... It makes his heart go !!!!

Who do they have a crush on?:
He has senpai crushes on Zoey on Diego, but he knows those are going nowhere and he's not interested in pursuing them. He has a crush on the Anon writer, or at least the idea he's formed in his head of what the Anon writer is like. I thiiink he has on-off romantic feelings toward several of his friends but those feelings are similar to that of a romantic friendship and not out of any strong want for a romantic relationship. He just wants to sit quietly and have his hair played with and not have to worry about expectations. :C

Are they seeing someone right now?: Nope.

What are they like in a relationship?:
I'M NOT SURE??? I feel like Ennis has a hard time communicating what he wants in a relationship and he's shy about initiating things. He has a looot of insecurities to work through. Things can go awry if his partner wants to move faster than he's ready and Ennis will either withdraw and find excuses not to or just go along with it and hope for the best rather than clearly outline his boundaries. Someone who asks straightforward questions and encourages clear communication is probably best for him, buUuUut ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think he gets really emotionally invested in relationships and he expresses his love through chaste gestures and gifting handmade items. He can knit, he can bake, he's an artist. Friends already get a lot of gifts, but a romantic partner would get more labor intensive gifts and more frequently.

Unless there's a strong friendship as a foundation, budding romantic relationships with Ennis probably feel pretty one-sided because he's not great at expressing himself and can still shy away from people he's interested in. POSSIBLY??? I'm really not sure. But he's definitely not a Levi.

Anything else?: Myrtle didn't like him nearly as much as he liked her. :^(
GIF Challenge:

Re: Ennis Harper (Walkthrough for Romance Route)

[-sparrow.insanejournal.com]

♥

Rosemary Stoker (pt 1)

[browbeats]

Name: Rosemary Stoker
What do they look for in a person?:

Assholes. Which LMFAO ROSY THAT’S SUCH A STEREOTYPE, but I don’t mean someone who’s mean to her. Just Rosy is also an asshole and if she ever dated a sweet fluffy marshmallow Ribbonfishy she would either never be herself, or she would eat them alive. Idealists need not apply.

Sense of humor. But also don’t be too much funnier than her. Being a sarcastic grump is kind of Rosy’s thing ok don't you fucking outshine her.

Someone who can take care of their own damn self. This isn’t to say that she won’t take care of you, but she will not mother her significant other. That is an easy recipe for Too Weird.

Not a Dumbass. Until you get knocked up with twins when you’re like 22 and find yourself getting married to just a set of abs.

Okay but kind of an idiot still. She tends to overthink so much that she likes someone who can just be like, “Well this looks like fun, looks like you can take the night off brain.”
What do they find romantic?: LIKE ROSY KNOWS ROMANTIC. She’s actually going to need to be reminded of Valentine’s Day and then she won’t know if she’s supposed to get Chris anything or if they’re just ignoring it because they’re cynical butthead nerds. She mostly thinks it’s romantic if you… think of her? Or surprise her? Surprise her by going, “I was not in your presence and I thought of you,” and she will do that weird choking/blushing thing again, oh my god wow way to keep those expectations low, Ro.
Who do they have a crush on?: Rosy hates that Casey is so fucking hot and that she once spent an entire day aggressively making out with him and his abs.
Are they seeing someone right now?: WHY YES, YES SHE IS, IN CASE YOU HAVEN’T HEARD. She and Chris are now able to use their words to work things out without first being “anonymously” instigated to do something. So it’s going… better than expected? When Rosy first developed a small crush on Chris she was like, “Oh god, this is a bad idea, everyone knows he sleeps around and he’s into Levi, and also he’s on Sy’s team, this could turn out just terribly. YOU REPRESS THAT SHIT ROSEMARY IT’S A BAD IDEA.” But, hormones?? And then she “anonymously” bullied him into asking her to a dance??? Then it stopped being a small crush and she was in too deep, she couldn’t back out now.
Rosy is still waiting for things to go really off the rails. She really likes Chris and that’s mildly terrifying to her, because Rosy has trust issues and a violent angry tumor that grew so big they sorted it and made it Quidditch Captain, and that violent angry tumor has the same trust issues. She tries not to let it show so much how much she likes being around Chris, but she’s so not as good at hiding her emotions as she thinks, so when he comes in the room she lights up and smiles and gets all butterflies in her stomach and sadfashshgiprp she doesn’t know how to handle it.
Buuuut she’s starting to accept that she can occasionally let her guard down around Chris? and he’s not going to use it to hurt her?? (though also in the back of her mind is the thought that if she lets him find out her weaknesses and then they break up he can definitely use that against her), and she’s kind of relaxing into this idea of having a boyfriend and she likes it.
Even if she really has no fucking clue what she’s doing.
What are they like in a relationship?:

She’s more physically affectionate than you might expect, considering she doesn’t want people up in her personal space much usually. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to be close to people, it just means she sucks at it.

Possibly always on the lookout for something awful to happen and might be always ready for a fight.

Actually pretty good about Not Being a Weird Mom (Girl)friend. She would appreciate it if Chris didn’t get killed or expelled, but she doesn’t feel like she needs to be mothering him and telling him to stop being an idiot and don’t go camping and get eaten by ghost bears in the woods. Because the fact that he’s an idiot is one of the things that she likes most about him, goddammit rosemary.

Rosemary Stoker (pt 2)

[browbeats]

Anything else?: I have a headcanon where the first boy she ever kissed was some nice boy at some big fancy dancy party when she was like 13 and then almost immediately afterwards he saw Sy out of the corner of his eye and disappeared and she was like, “Oh ok fuck you, now I’m gonna make sure he gets a death by Stoker.” Which I think means she was like “hey sy go deck this douche” instead of doing it herself so she wouldn’t chip a nail. But basically what I’m saying is fuck these guys.
GIF Challenge: so qt ♥

Isabelle Sargent

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Name: Isabelle Sargent
What do they look for in a person?: She looks for strong people, with strong personalities. Maybe because it's easier to follow, but also because she thinks they need to be strong to handle her. She shies away from people who are blatantly honest or have no mouth filter, and bullies. She looks for kindness and understanding.
What do they find romantic?: She has kind of the kissing-in-the-rain idea of romance in her head. She has not had any sort of experiences in romance yet, just some kissing (thanks Grotto party!) but she has a very hollywood-esque idea of what romance is supposed to be like.
Who do they have a crush on?: Nothing concrete but Milo, Ennis, Harriet, and maybe Wilde
Are they seeing someone right now?: NOPE. GOING JUST FINE THO ITS OK.
What are they like in a relationship?: She has no idea yet.
Anything else?: She has discovered kissing is awesome and she's sad Grotto parties got banned right when she started going it's her fault
GIF Challenge:


this is my favorite romance gif.

Avery Davenport

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Name: Avery Davenport
What do they look for in a person?: The handsome, debonair type. She likes a little mystery. She likes the quiet boys, the thinkers. Avery is drawn to people who like sports, but that isn't a requirement. She's very "i'm a hot grill, I need some hot boys to burnnnn" right now. Fortunately, Gooseberry is EXTREMELY well stocked on hot boys. I think she looks for the people with diverse backgrounds, the kind who are more likely to be understanding. She doesn't mind if they're outspoken or not, but she doesn't like bullies, or people who are overly competitive. She likes to have fun, she wants the people she's with to have fun too. Avery enjoys people who are light-hearted.
What do they find romantic?: Surprise gifts like flowers. She likes honestly, nothing more romantic than a guy who shares his feelings. Candles and walks through the park, fairy lights and picnics. She's simple in that sense, it doesn't take anything extravagant to make her happy. Make a blanket fort, add some christmas lights and you've created her perfect kind of romantical night.
Who do they have a crush on?: Asher Guthrie, Iliya Krum, Ulysses Quayle, and Cameron Carney
Are they seeing someone right now?: Not really. She thought she might, but then it didn't really happen. She's still happy, though.
What are they like in a relationship?: I imagine she'll be disgustingly adorable.
Anything else?: Nothin!
GIF Challenge: not a gif but

Penelope Vargas

[get_fucked]

Name: Penelope Vargas
What do they look for in a person?: Quiet. Penelope isn't particularly verbose and she isn't one to share *feelings* all that fast. She's drawn to people who are comfortable with silence. She likes to sit and hang out, not have to talk or entertain all the time. Someone comfortable and happy just to be in the presence of someone else without needing much else to go on. She wants someone who is patient, non-competitive (trust me, she's competitive enough for the both of them) although let's be real she's also probably the kind to like competing with her significant other... and kind. Someone she can trust.
What do they find romantic?: She doesn't really care for ~romance~ though she likes little gestures. Kisses to the forehead, small touches. Surprises.
Who do they have a crush on?: Etta, Diego, Zoey, Ryan, Sy (STILL, JFC), Robin, and she could see herself liking Wilde if she knew him better.
Are they seeing someone right now?: NO AND SHE HATES IT. But she's certainly not about to *tell* anyone she likes them ever again either.
What are they like in a relationship?: Probably just as bitchy and competitive as she does outside of a relationship. I think that was probably how it was like with her and Sy. Now, I think she might be a little more calm. A little more herself. Quiet, kind, more caring than she has been in the past.
Anything else?: Girls a hot mess sry.
GIF Challenge:
not romantic just adorable

Re: Penelope Vargas

[dooomcookie]

;__;

Diego Morales, pt 1

[indiefolk]

Name: Diego Morales

What do they look for in a person?:
Oh boy does Diego ever have a type. Are you soft-spoken, polite and compassionate with a calm demeanor? Even Diego isn't oblivious to the fact that Tabitha, Cecil and Ravi have a lot of things in common. He looooves that softness and sense of serenity, but I think he also clicks well with people who are a little morose deep down, because so is he.

Really, though, Diego wants someone who makes him feel like a peer and who thinks he's smart and interesting. He pins his ego on what the other person thinks about him, so if they can make him feel good about himself he'll be head over heels in no time.

He also admires people with strong convictions, who are passionate about the things that are important to them, and just generally have a spine. This is because... he does not have much of a spine himself. Related, but he also likes people who are less promiscuous than him, because due to some awesome self-loathing, he tends to associate people who don't have sex as possessing strong moral fiber. This is a stupid, shitty standard he only holds himself to.

What do they find romantic?:
Talking, talking and more talking. Diego likes to express himself verbally, so the primary cornerstone of a romantic relationship with Diego is an interest in long, wordy conversations. This is the ideal kind of attention for him, which can probably become exhausting because he's always looking for feedback in the form of massive emotional conversations. This is also a necessity for being a close friend, but a romance with Diego just won't work if you're not willing to spend a lot of time conversing.

He also values doing things together a lot, and wouldn't be content with having super separate lives. Diego does not value space, to no one's great surprise. He finds hearing people talk about what they love and showing it to him to be very romantic. He also loves outdoorsy activities and thinks hikes and horseback riding and taking in the beauty of nature and other sappy stuff like that to be PEAK ROMANCE. Music is unsurprisingly a big romantic thing for him. Better believe he makes playlists and writes songs about whoever he's dating.

Who do they have a crush on?: Ravi's at the forefront of his mind right now. He's also had passing interest in Zoey, Cricket and Isaiah, and there was the whole Cecil Incident.

Are they seeing someone right now?: After last night's party, he and Ravi are... trying to work something out. All that's certain is that Diego's going to hold off on hookups and making out with people while this gets sorted out, so he's tentatively spoken for.

Diego Morales, pt 2

[indiefolk]

What are they like in a relationship?:
Gives a lot, but takes a lot too. He's attentive and affectionate, but needy and clingy. Like, wow. So needy. He's an emotional vampire, and if his SO's not willing to do a lot of emotional labor, then dating him is probably kind of overwhelming. He's also melodramatic, anxious and insecure, which means if he thinks their interest is waning he takes it hard. No to mention he's self-destructive and impulsive, so despite all of his dedication and passion, he's not actually all that reliable and fucks up a lot. Forgets promises, accidentally does things you specifically said you dislike, etc. He always feels REALLY BAD afterwards, but it's an uphill battle for him to be good. In the past, he's had a lot of relationships that burned bright and then faded really fast because of this.

However, he's very dedicated to the point of being a little passive. He lets the other person determine the terms of the relationship and bends over backwards to please them. Because of His Type™, he dedicates a lot of time and attention to trying to make their life fun and exciting and entertaining. He's so, so very invested in their happiness and satisfaction. He kind of needs to be told to chill out or he'll work himself into a tizzy and ruin things until he makes himself miserable (see: Tabitha). Diego loves being in love, though, so despite how worked up he gets, he's SO HAPPY being with them. THE HAPPIEST HE'S EVER BEEN.

And of course he wants to talk. He wants your attention. He wants your validation. Diego loves dramatic romantic gestures, which can be big and showy or just small and sappy. He's very into building moods and an aesthetic and doing romantic shit that sounds and looks good because he's a pretentious hipster.

Anything else?: Diego is the sort of guy who would impulsively propose to his high school sweetheart at 19 and suggest they elope. He should absolutely be told 'no'.

GIF Challenge:

[solveforx]

LMAO I tried doing this twice now and it comes out SUPER DUPER BORING so here I'll just post my gif.

[quinning]

i love this gif more than words thank you jenny

[laaurel.insanejournal.com]

Name: Laurel Templeton!
What do they look for in a person?: Honestly, no type here. I seriously have no fucking clue what runs through her mind or causes her to be more drawn to some people than others.

I would say she probably gravitates romantically to people who are simultaneously calmer/able to ground her a bit but ALSO willing to get weird and run around and do whatever. Also someone who recognizes and encourages her ambition and drive -- someone who actually takes her seriously! Really just a best friend who will make out with her and accept Everything. Perhaps like a super super romantic friendship with sexual vibes. I would say partner in crime, but she already has one of those.
What do they find romantic?: Attention, honesty, etc. Maybe artist-muse kinda vibes. Movies where people make huge sacrifices and then it turns out they didn't have to and everything will be fine. That "one person" who "makes everything okay" kinda stories. Buuuuut while she finds these things romantic, I think she knows that it isn't what she needs or actually desires? So really who fuckin knows
Who do they have a crush on?: Ehhhhhh. I would say vaguely Asher because he seems sweet, but nothing very concrete right now. There's a handful of girls she's skittish around because she finds them attractive, but they also scare her, so she never talks to them! Yay!
Are they seeing someone right now?: Nah. There were things with Wes, but... yeah. Lol.
What are they like in a relationship?: She's only been in like... two... or three? These things have never lasted long or amounted to much but growing experiences/fun. She will usually attest that she doesn't know wtf she's doing, but I think she'd actually be a super sweet girlfriend, if not a bit flighty and maybe prone to getting caught up in other things sometimes, so not always 100% engaged or around. I get the sense that she's either VERY ALL IN or VERY NOT ALL IN and kind of aloof, but equally loyal in either case. Under Amortentia she was ready to run away with Iris, get married, etc? SO really I JUST HAVE NO CLUE GUYS
Anything else?:
GIF Challenge:

so romantic

[cheerpowers]

Marilyn is looking at this gif like 😍

Quinn Cunningham, part 1. ATTACK OF THE LISTS.

[quinning]

Name: Quinn Cunningham

What do they look for in a person?:

• SSAF seeks SSCM. Must be athletic, overly passionate about choice hobbies, and have minimum 1 utter jackass in immediate family. Accomplished dancer an asset. (It might have occurred to me that she has a type.)
• Someone who makes her laugh and (here's the kicker!) appreciates her (questionable???) sense of humour. If you don't think her elaborate journal replies and borderline-roasty jokes are funny, then byeeeeee!
• Respect for her work ethic. Don't bother her needlessly in the library! Don't ask her "isn't studying that much kind of pointless tho!" If they can identify with her because they value something else similarly—it doesn't have to be academics—then they're immediately, like 10x more attractive.
• Because she spends so much time working, Needy McNeedysons need not apply. :(
• Someone who can keep up with her. Like, literally. Can they go for a run with Quinn and not drag her down? How about a skate? If you answered "yes," then we might have some good news for you!
• Y'all, she'd better not feel like she has to police your behaviour constantly. (This is probably a big part of why she and Chris lasted a whopping two weeks.)

What do they find romantic?:

• Above all (aside from a sense of humour), when it's obvious that the other person wants to spend time with her. Someone who makes excuses to hang out with her or or rearranges plans just a bit so they can see each other makes her go weak at the knees because she feels appreciated and wanted, and she feeeeds off of those two things.
• All gestures great and small as long as they communicate "hey, like, I'm thinkin' 'bout you." We're talking cute (but also silly) notes, snack deliveries to the library after missed meals, etc.
• FUCKIN SPORTS, MAN! Skating together is like, super romantic, okay. Do the sports, talk about the sports, ask her about the sports: yes, yes, yes!!!
• The whole "feeling wanted" thing definitely extends to being pulled aside to kiss in clandestine places and times. Ahem. Yes, Quinn does think this is "romantic."
• ... Gifts are liable to make her uncomfortable (particularly elaborate ones, and definitely expensive ones).

Who do they have a crush on?: We know this. All together now: Ty~ (At least she's admitting it to herself now.)

Are they seeing someone right now?:

ok no that's a joke that Alex inspired me to make. (I stole it from her.) Not seeing anyone, and she's stopped seeking hookups that aren't the above-mentioned cheer captain. She's "too busy or whatever." ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Quinn Cunningham, part 2. REVENGE OF THE LISTS.

[quinning]

What are they like in a relationship?:

• Flirts, jokes, and teases. Incessantly. Also talks a lot.
• Her sincere appreciation for gestures (described above ^) is a two-way street. She likes to do things like write (warded) journal entries, send owls, leave small gifts (homemade and often not well done), and draw very poorly. All of these things are very (a) silly, (b) done self-aware (c) likely to relate to inside jokes.
• She's had to learn how to bend her "working hours" rules for someone she's in a relationship with; she can get a little tunnel vision-y about schoolwork and knows that that can be interpreted as indifference to spending time with them. Which isn't true! ... But there are times when she needs to be prodded and told "hey, like, remember me? let's go do a thing over there *points to not the library*"
• Related to that, she's also more likely to get spontaneous and "rebellious" with her time. Persuading her to put down a textbook for a few hours becomes easier.
• Very physically affectionate — she'll touch a hand or arm while she's talking, play with hair, just kind of have a hand wherever (that isn't supposed to read as racy as it does, I swear). She does not, however, push it into clingy territory in public by constantly hang off arms or flopping all over laps. (This does not apply if she's wasted at a Grotto party.)
• She can get a little selfish about spending time with someone. At parties and the like, she's pretty much made a hobby out of finding a quiet(er) corner/hallway/etc. in which to drag her date so they can chat (read: banter) and engage in gratuitous out-makings. Good news: parties are too rad to leave for too long. ... unless she's encouraged to do so for more enticing reasons, which she's often amenable to.
• As an experienced Bottler of Emotions, she has a habit of leaning emotionally on significant others when she's let things build up and build up but doesn't yet know how to articulate it or deal with it.

Anything else?: Quinn has a lot of opinions about a lot of relationships that do not concern her, and she shares these with close friends. And the anon posts.

Also, I feel like in 15 minutes I'm going to want to revise ALL of this and aaahhhhhhhhuuuuugggghhhhh.
GIF Challenge:

Hazel Keating

[lilwitchhazel]

Name: Hazel Keating
What do they look for in a person?: Someone who can keep up with her, mainly - she's excitable and energetic and likes things to be interesting, so anyone who is too placid and won't give her sass will probably lose her interest pretty quickly. If she were interested in someone like that she'd definitely at least try dating, but she'd probably call it off pretty quickly (and would have to try REALLY HARD not to call whoever it was boring). Also any attempts at smothering or controlling her will be met with a not-flirty punch.
What do they find romantic?: Oh god. Hazel doesn't understand romance, so she doesn't really think about it at all. Just give her attention and be willing to go on adventures with her and she'll think you're the best boyfriend ever. Also let her punch you a bit. Just a bit though.
Who do they have a crush on?: Not really anyone, actually, but she's definitely on the prowl now!
Are they seeing someone right now?: Nope, but she's sort of thinking about changing that. It's not something that's crazy important to her, but Ana wants to date, and she figures she should probably want to more than she does??
What are they like in a relationship?: Pretty much how she is with her friends, except with making out - she's affectionate, protective, and silly. She's probably a bit more aggressive too (more shoving, more shoulder punching), because she thinks that's flirty. She doesn't really take dating overly seriously.
Anything else?: She's going to ask Chris for relationship advice at some point and he's just going to confirm to her that punching people is a valid way of flirting and it's going to be an amazing disaster.
GIF Challenge: Hazel demands kiss tribute

[momblogger]

Name: Magdalen Gillis
What do they look for in a person?:
She likes strong, ambitious young women with solid plans and goals for their future that they're actively working toward achieving. She wants to be with someone who will be successful after graduation. Shallowly, she prefers Purebloods for longterm relationships because her mother is Sacred 28 and her family is actively trying to integrate themselves into Pureblood society in North America.

What do they find romantic?:
Maggie honestly just wants to be told she's beautiful and intelligent and showered with compliments. She can't bake or cook for shit, so she loves when girls give her food they've made. TESS'S CUPCAKE FORMAL INVITE WAS A+, SWOON-WORTHY.

She likes typical romantic shit like long walks through the gardens and holding hands and being rowed around the lake in a canoe.

Who do they have a crush on?: She still holds a candle for her ex-girlfriend/the former HG who hasn't bothered contacting her since they broke up right before school. Maggie has it in her head that she's going to graduate and join the Auror program and her ex is going to see how successful she is and want to rekindle their romance and Maggie will deny her at first and make her work for it but then Anj is going to confess her love for her and how she's so sorry for snubbing her and Maggie will take her back and they're going to live happily ever after as a lesbian (almost) Pureblood power couple.

That's not gonna happen.

She's mostly just desperate for attention and affection right now and wants to feel attractive and wanted, so she's sort of been eyeing Etta up since the tryouts for something casual. She like Tess a lot and Tess is close to her ideal, but she's a Muggleborn and Maggie is wary about starting something with her and getting invested, SORRY.

Maggie's also wondering if she has feelings for Cricket or if it's just normal jealousy of not wanting her friend being taken away. (She purposefully suggests Nice Boys she knows Cricket wouldn't like.) She would nitpick at Wes and the thing with Kenzie inspired a new jealousy because she couldn't wrap her head around the idea of Cricket being bisexual before she saw her looking glam with Kenzie at the formal and she had a thought of, "Okay, well, if you like femme girls then why not me?" Seeing Kenzie flirt with Uly at the tryouts and over the journals has her feelin' a lil smug in the pettiest of ways.

But also, AGENT LARKE, HEYOOOOOO!!!! NOW THAT'S A STRONG, SUCCESSFUL WOMAN AND POTENTIAL FUTURE CO-WORKER!!!! YOUNG, FEMME, BEAUTIFUL, POWERFUL AS HELL, EXCEPTIONALLY INTELLIGENT, COULD KILL A MAN!!!! MACUSA MACUSA MACUSA MACUSA!!!!

Are they seeing someone right now?: No.

What are they like in a relationship?:
Maggie is romantic and sappy and wants to hold hands constantly and slip cutesy notes and sneak little treats into their school bags and she wants to know their schedule so they can meet up and spend time together and study together and go on walks together and spend every waking moment together. She'll be dedicated and loyal and attentive, but she can be a lot to handle once she's finally in the relationship. The courting process with her takes forever because she's indecisive and constantly weighing the pros and cons; if they're a Pure, though, she's pretty quick to latch on.

Magdalen is clingy. At worst, she has a controlling streak and is prone to jealousy. She tends to avoid dating bisexuals for the shitty reason of not wanting a boy to aggressively swoop in and assert himself while they're still on the getting-to-know-you phase.

Anything else?: The perfect Head Girl is secretly a bit of a mess.

GIF Challenge:

[cheerpowers]

I love her 'Welllll? I'm waiting' look in this gif.

CASEY Patterson

[sunsoutgunsout]

as casey thinks romance is BOOOORING, i have replaced every instance of "romantic" with "sick" and "relationship" with "good time."

Name: CASEY Patterson
What do they look for in a person?: His app states Casey says, "yeah but are they hot?" and I stand by that. If he's eyeing someone it's because they're fit and they're confident (shy can be ok but self-deprecating losers need NOT apply he gives ZERO shits about you). He doesn't have so much 'a type' as 'an appreciation for the human form, especially when it's a good one and he can grind against it.'
What do they find sick?: Playing hard to get is ALSO BORING! He likes people who are forward! He likes people who don't expect him to put in hours of effort just to know them the way he wants! Usually he likes it when he feels like the one who is In Charge and Knows Shit, though a role reversal in those respects can be 👌
Who do they have a crush on?: good fuck there aren't enough hours in eternity MOVING ON
Are they seeing someone right now?: lol no are you serious THAT WOULD BE A DISASTER
What are they like in a good time?: Unconditionally open and respectful when laying ground rules, then ready to have fun. Leaves as soon as it stops being siiick. Doesn't give a flying fuck about ~emotions~ or ~feelings-y shit.~ Takes charge unless it's a specific situation where he's cool with not being in charge. Does not get attached. Does not get jealous.
Anything else?: bro
GIF Challenge: LOOK AT HOW CUTE HE IS.



i bet you thought i was going to use a shirtless gif. HA!!!

[momblogger]

OMG HIS LIL SUIT FOR VALENTINE'S DAY ;___;

Susana Velasquez

[pintsizedsass]

Name: Susana Velasquez

What do they look for in a person?: I'm not sure she has a type, since I'm still feeling her out in that regard and she's kind of still figuring it out and her crushes kind of run the gamut honestly. But! Ana does seem to like guys that are nice, genuine (not necessarily innocent or philanthropic genuine, but just honest about who they are), and anyone who is able to make her laugh and have fun. They can't be a bully, they can't be boring, they can't be overly egotistical (at least in the way they'll pay attention only to themselves and not her). Super studious types aren't really her thing either. You can be smart, but studying all the time? Ain't nobody got time for that! Keeping up with her is key, as she's super competitive and still not good at the whole not putting up walls thing, plus she does have a kind of rambunctious attitude so. AND most importantly HAZEL HAS TO APPROVE OF YOU ♥
What do they find romantic?: She's honestly not really sure? She does like gestures that show when people are thinking about her/noticed her/etc. (Cole's Christmas dress that was handmade, Sy telling her he was proud after tryouts, etc) Nothing overly showy or cheesy, though. She doesn't mind simple.
Who do they have a crush on?: Cole (She's in the friend zone, folks). Micah sorta? (Nothing huge, but she thinks he's fun and cute etc) Low key Sy (Looks up to him, respects him, wants to make him proud, hero worship. Diminished greatly when he's mean to Calvin or Calvin talks about him being mean because Calvin is her people now, though)
Are they seeing someone right now?: Nope! But she's definitely actively trying to see if that can be a thing! (When she's not thinking of Quidditch, which is pretty much all the time)
What are they like in a relationship?: I imagine it wouldn't be very different, but she's never been in one. She'll be softer, let down the walls, maybe allow that Honeymoon Stage to take over and her be wrapped in them? She will never be clingy, and will still do her own thing a lot, so the guy will have to be okay with no 24/7. She'll be more touchy, since she's not really one to do it with everyone (except Hazel), but she'd want to show whoever she's with that she likes them in a special way. (And she really likes kissing games, so. Lots of making out and such)
Anything else?: What other romance-themed things do you want to share about your character?
GIF Challenge:

Re: Susana Velasquez

[lilwitchhazel]

Hazel WOULD try to help you with Cole Ana but she thinks he's too boring for you!!!!! Not that she doesn't love Cole of course~ Still, Hazel approval DENIED.

Also lmao I love that Ana is sweeter and Hazel is meaner in relationships. Ana maybe you should give Hazel a talk.

[destructobot.insanejournal.com]

Name: Jonny Wiiiiilde.
What do they look for in a person?: People who will give him attention? Lmao.
Really though, I think he likes the quintessential bookish/smart girl archetype kinda. Someone who thinks for herself, knows things, can impress him but doesn't care about impressing him, doesn't care what people think. Someone he actually likes talking to -- that's probably the biggest thing? If he can stand to be around you and not have to duck away awkwardly to go be alone and recharge like with everyone else, that's like Numero Uno. He's also drawn to creativity and interest in "the strange," however practiced it is.

If you asked him, he'd probably say something obnoxious like "I just want someone who's authentic." In a perfect world, he'd have a girlfriend he could vent to about anything, show all his dumb writing, and who would show interest and help him become a better and MORE AUTHENTIC PERSON himself.

What do they find romantic?: A lot of things, actually. He's secretly quite intense about crushes after a certain point (I mean, hi poetry book) and would melt over having the same kind of attention fired back at him. Like. Use of creativity and time to express feelings for HIM? That shit is the best. Also your standard stuff, to a certain extent -- spending all your time together, holding hands, secret little smiles and note-passing, long walks in the woods (JUST KIDDING), sharing food, reading books out loud, blah blah. All of these things would make Wilde's entire life, but he definitely pretends he doesn't care about them.

Who do they have a crush on?: Oh god ugh. Yeah, yeah. He's been staring at Saira in class a little bit, probably noticeably engaging her in discussions, looking to see if she's around all the time, etc. Like. The standard I-like-you-but-don't-want-to-admit-it-so-I'll-just-bug-you teenage boy bullshit. It's silently killing him inside.

He also has weird crushes/some degree of attraction toward Roxanne and Ariadne, and maybe Penny a little.
Are they seeing someone right now?: Lol
What are they like in a relationship?: At first, probably very demonstrative and weird. Like. Let me show you how cool and smart and amazing I am. Maybe a bit detached, showy. Watch me do x y z. Let's dissect this stupid film together. He's extremely cautious about really "opening his heart" (puuuke) so definitely doesn't really let the walls come down -- at least not quickly, at least not with everyone. There'd probably be a balancing act of getting to know/trust eachother and letting him "be his own person" and figure his shit out or whatever. There's a way he thinks he should act in these cases that isn't representative of his actual real nature, so -- I guess Wilde would need time to learn how to love someone and really BE there.

As an actual person giving his actual all in an actual relationship, super committed and warm, maybe somewhat idealizing. Like "let's make a secret world together" feelings. Us against everyone else, your issues become his issues. I think he'd do anything for people he genuinely cares for, romantic or otherwise, and there's probably a side of him that only someone he's in love with would ever get to see. SO. Hope you enjoy becoming the symbol of everything good in the world to him, because that's kinda inevitable, yet also having to endure some bickering and posturing FOREVER.

Anything else?: ahhhh
GIF Challenge:

not a gif but this is wilde so

[sunsoutgunsout]

bae watch me do grind some sick rails

Vee!

[cheerpowers]

Name: Veronica Powers

What do they look for in a person?: Honestly? There's a lot that goes into what Vee looks for, but she doesn't consciously know she's looking. She likes people who are fun, upbeat, kind, intelligent (but maybe not as nerdy-studying as her because she NEEDS someone to remind her to take breaks). She wants someone who can be goofy with her, who makes her feel pretty and sexy and desired, but can also do silly things and be a little cheesy. Who doesn't mind when she gets sensitive, doesn't mind ~feelings~, who will talk about random things without ever feeling awkward. She doesn't like bullies, doesn't like overly Alpha males, doesn't like super controlling people. They have to be light and energetic and fun and not super serious because her perfectionist side needs an outlet that her partner will help.
What do they find romantic?: It really depends on the person again. She likes gestures that are meaningful and personal, like gifts catered to her or dates catered to her. Physical affection, teasing comments, them having her back/being protective (though not overprotective or controlling). She really is a secret (or maybe not so secret?) attention whore and likes feeling loved and adored, though tries not to be selfish or mean about it.
Who do they have a crush on?: Um do I have to say it? We don't already know? ;) RAS ♥
Are they seeing someone right now?: Yes, Ras. It's going really well (she thinks? hopes?!)
What are they like in a relationship?: Vee isn't really super different, though how she acts largely depends on the person she's dating. She's little miss perfect, remember? She has to be the perfect girlfriend too! It helps that she interacts and relates to most people so well so it's easy to settle into a relationship and bond closely. She doesn't need to be around them 24/7, but she certainly likes that. She doesn't want to be clingy, and honestly has a lot going on, but she does have deep-seated insecurities that she's good at hiding. (Like do they really like her? Are they annoyed?) She's not a super jealous person, but those insecurities can rear their heads if someone starts showing a particular interest in her partner. She's also a huge fan of physical contact, in all its forms, and is very affectionate with whoever she's with. (Unless they indicate they would like otherwise) Vee also thinks in terms of a coupling a lot of the time once she's ALL IN, and there's no other way for her to be. She is a chronic spoiler when it comes to her significant others, and will dote on them to the maximum.
Anything else?: She likes to feel adored and be doted on, she is shameless. She can also be a low key flirt without meaning to.
GIF Challenge:

HELP, I can't stop staring at my own gif

[cheerpowers]

 

[gdilevi]

Name: Levi Kramer
What do they look for in a person?:
Levi "likes shy" but he's had a shallow crush on nearly every Junior and Senior boy (and older) that might even be slightly interested in men. He's not picky in a partner but there are two very distinct "types" Levi is instantly drawn to. He's had fantasies about courting these idealized soft, shy, blushing, chaste, and domestic boys that he always labeled "off limits" (Cecil!!) but he enjoyed pursuing boys that were athletic, aggressive, had a bit of a mean streak to them, and were willing to fool around. (Chris!! Casey!! Raf!!)

He gets bored easily and needs someone who's fun and holds his interest. Before he started dating Cecil, he would go through Flavor of the Months where he pursued a new and different boy (sometimes multiple) until he lost interest. Chris was kept on the back-burner through that because Levi thought they were just casual FWB and it wasn't a big deal.

What do they find romantic?:
Levi loves spontaneity and thrives off PDA because he loves being the center of attention. He likes getting flowers and other thoughtful gifts and he's always hyped to receive them. Levi is a fan of grand and elaborate gestures to show his affection and he likes when his partners make no secret of their affection for him. He needs to feel wanted and desirable and if they're just kind of lukewarm about him, he loses interest and peaces out. It's easy to string him along this way (Ricardo!!) but he also has the tendency to keep others stringed along as well so he can still know that he's wanted. (Chris!!)

He... also really loves elaborate roleplaying scenarios. He tries it with Cecil constantly (OKAY, I'M A COPPERTALE AND YOU'RE A RIBBONFIN AND WE'RE IN LOVE BUT--) but Cecil doesn't get it and doesn't play along.

Who do they have a crush on?: CECIL HONEYCHURCH!!!!! RICARDO RAMIREZ!! Anddd he still has lingering feelings for Chris, they didn't just go away. But he thinks as long as Cecil doesn't seem to have a problem with the banter and horseplay then it's okay. (Spoiler: It's not okay.) He also still thinks Reid is fine af but he's tried to date him and knows they're not compatible so that curiosity is sated.

Are they seeing someone right now?: 📣 DID YOU GUYS HEAR THE NEWS???? LEVI AND CECIL ARE DATING.

What are they like in a relationship?:
Disgusting.

GIF Challenge:
UNCOMFORTABLE FLASHBACK TO WHEN DAN HOWELL WAS 18/19 AND GOING THROUGH A PHASE.

Levi distributed copies of these when he was a Sophomore and there's probably a few still floating around.



You know what comes next. TECHNICALLY SFW but definitely suggestive so click at your own risk.

[noblewon]

why did I click the link

Marilyn!

[dreamsofdragons]

Name: Marilyn Fairchild

What do they look for in a person?: It's a little complicated to answer this. She hasn't had any experience dating seriously, though she's had a fling or two (never more than a week or so, and nothing that resulted in anything deep) She doesn't even technically know she can actually have something serious with a guy if it's the right one, as she's convinced she's a lover of the ladies. But regardless, she gravitates towards people that are more assertive than her (which isn't hard, let's be real), but not cruel or mean or overly controlling. Sure, she can have a superficial crush on all the attractive mean girls running around, but anything emotional requires someone she isn't afraid to be around. She isn't good at decisions, though, so they have to be the take charge type. She likes kindness, grounded behavior, intelligence, and ~fun~. Animal love is a plus. Being outdoors is another plus. Playfulness is another plus. And just because she needs someone assertive doesn't mean she wouldn't like someone shy either!
What do they find romantic?: Marilyn can be really cheesy in what she finds romantic. The typical sappy things: long intimate walks, fancy dinners, a single flower (even if it's picked right in front of her), initials spelled out in grassy fields, etc. She also loves when people take the time to get to know her and what she likes and use those things in a sweet way to show they pay attention.
Who do they have a crush on?: Olivia!, Harriet, Addy (sorry boo, she knows you're taken but she can't help it!)
Are they seeing someone right now?: Nope
What are they like in a relationship?: Marilyn would probably be a little lost at first. She'd rely on whoever she was with to set the pace and tone, and it wouldn't occur to her that she might have to assert some things and make decisions and do anything more than stare adoringly at them and kiss them and play with them. Once she learns a little more, she'll be extremely attentive and eager to please, offering her own opinions (albeit shyly). She'll always kind of rely on the other to take the lead, and she might be a little clingy at times because she just loves a lot and wants to be near them and yesssss. Also very very physically affectionate, and a quick learner (both when it comes to the physical and just everyday relationship stuff)
Anything else?: She just really needs to figure this whole thing out, ladies and gents. Help is welcome!
GIF Challenge:

Chris Park (part one)

[bambae]

Name: Christopher Park
What do they look for in a person?:
- Challenges; obviously there needs to be some kind of competition
- Assholes
- Violence
- Humor
- Someone who can get the fuck back up again
- Apparently someone who blushes because shit. That's hot
- Intelligence. He can't date a dumbass.
- But he also can't date somebody who can't see the lure of dumbass ideas.
- Independence. He doesn't want to own anybody, he doesn't wanna be a part of one of those weird couples that become obsessively involved with each other to the point that they barely exist outside of that relationship. He's not looking to change anybody into what he wants them to be, and he's really not looking to hook up with somebody nice who wants to change everything about him either
What do they find romantic?: lmfao romance. I should just leave it there. Chris doesn't have an idea what the fuck romance is. He doesn't actually believe in romance. He believes when you give yourself to someone, you're giving them a loaded gun and asking them to hurt you and trusting that they won't, and he thinks that's just fucking stupid.

But I guess he finds romance in familiarity? He spends a lot of time posturing, but to actually let down his guard is the closest he comes to romance. who the fuck would agree to date him?
Who do they have a crush on?: Levi. It's not an actual crush tho? He was hung up on levi for a while there, then he got over it and now he's totally cool. Except sometimes Levi does something that makes Chris stop and remember the shit they can't do anymore and it makes him jealous all over again. So that's still a problem but it's not a real crush.
Are they seeing someone right now?:

idk if you guys heard, but he's got a girlfriend. Named Rosy. idk if he's told you today or...

It's actually going pretty good? I feel like Chris has a tendency to grow complacent, and just assume shit. Like he assumes that since Cecil is okay with Levi's behavior that Rosy is gonna be too, and then she reminds him that she's a lot more vocal than Cecil so how can you even confuse the two, really? And Chris is like oh yeah.

But he also kinda really likes that. He's finding himself accidentally comparing him and Rosy to Levi and Cecil. So he finds himself asking her before hand if she's okay with him breaking rules, because Cecil isn't okay with that, and Rosy's a prefect too. And everything he compares, he finds that he likes how it is with him and Rosy more. Which are concerns he wasn't expecting to have.

idk if you haven't heard but Chris's relationship with his rock is currently the longest relationship he's ever been in. He has literally no experience with actually becoming romantically invested with someone else. He's not even used to having a crush on someone else. Anybody he's ever been interest in, he's been able to go out there and hook up with them and move on, or keep hooking up with them. He's never had legitimate romantic emotions toward someone before. And everything he's learned about romance he's learned through his mother's failed marriages. He's learned that romance is hard and it's painful, and they always end up leaving. So he's kept himself distant because he isn't gonna be that person waiting for somebody to love them and then leave them.

But after Levi, Chris acknowledged that his fuck up was that he never told Levi how he felt because of that distance. So when he developed a crush on Rosy and started liking pestering her just for an excuse to spend time with her, he decided he wasn't gonna make the same fuck up twice. He was gonna allow himself to be bullied anonymously into asking her to the halloween dance (apparently by her, which he finds hilarious). A lot of what he does with Rosy is because he doesn't want to have any regrets. If she tells him something bothers her, he wants to fix it instead of fucking this up and regretting it.

Which means they can now talk out their problems with actual words. And he likes that, because he's literally like that with nobody else except for Quinn but that's literally four years in the making.

Chris Park (part two)

[bambae]

What are they like in a relationship?: Chris is still a dumbass. I think he's slower in a relationship. He's experienced and he hooks up a lot and there's not a lot that shames him, but in a relationship with Rosy, he's going at an extremely slow pace. It makes Chris slower, more considerate than he normally is. He's careful not to make her feel pressured. He already knew Rosy before they started dating, so he knows she has some baggage, he knows she has some trust issues, he knows that she's not sexually experienced, and he doesn't want her to feel like he gets impatient with any of that. He doesn't want her to think he'll get bored of her. He doesn't want her to feel like she has to alter any part of her for anybody - that's disgustingly sweet considering the assholes I'm talking about.

But it's not like he's a different person, so while he wants there to be trust, and while he's actually starting to lower his own walls around her - he still feels like he's handing her a gun and trusting her not to shoot him, and this is Rosy, and he's seen her angry. So he's waiting for something to blow up, and he's waiting for it to bite him in the ass. But he's also himself, so he's also waiting for himself to fuck it up.

If you look close enough, Chris looks fucking smitten. He lights up when he sees Rosy, he hangs around her at parties and dances. If you listen though, literally all you'll hear is them shit talking each other.

Anything else?: OKAY MY HEADCANON for chris's first kiss is that he was like ten. And he rushed it and got so excited that he went in for the kiss so hard he accidentally broke the girl's nose.
GIF Challenge: Chris's face every time some dumbass teenager starts going on about being love tbh

Katya

[catseyenebula.insanejournal.com]

Name: Katya Ivanova
What do they look for in a person?: Sadly, it appears, that Katya likes a good mix between the Joker and Jon Snow. What that is I'm not entirely sure. She would be the person that would fall for the super crazy person thinking that they are going to try and fix them and all of a sudden BAM she's now super psychotic too. In case the last few months confused you, Katya likes the brooding type. Not much else to say, if anyone can find a mix of those guys, send them her way.
What do they find romantic?: Katya has very little expectations out of any sort of romantic situation. Will they listen to her? Do they keep secrets? Will she let them spoil the crap out of them? Do they like Russian accents? Done. She doesn't need much else, she isn't much of an attention whore but she will do her best to make sure the other person is taken care of.
Who do they have a crush on?: Well not anymore, no. Casper is a bit of a big meanie head so she's sort of decided crushes are stupid.
Are they seeing someone right now?: Nope and currently it's just fine. She might pout a little nearer Valentine's Day but she isn't about to make a big deal out of it.
What are they like in a relationship?: Not really sure, the only thing she had was with Casper and she was pretty much the same. Her depression might have tainted the entire thing so hopefully she won't go crazy if she ends up with someone else eventually. She's a bit of a cuddle bug and is certainly not super showy. Katya doesn't like giant displays of love nor will she give them. She's pretty damn chill in relationships that don't include insane knife wielding killers or depression overload.
Anything else?: Um, Katya likes candy. Give her all of the candy and she will love you forever.

Re: Katya

[imnotlistening]

THIS GIF IS THE BEST. Thank you for posting it. HELL YES.

Trixie

[lfmkarapst.insanejournal.com]

SWF LOOKING FOR M FOR DESTRUCTION OF WORLD + MINIONS.








if you ain't know what trixie wants by now, it's robin. k bye

Ferris

[tinyrebel.insanejournal.com]

Is that enough info? Look at that. How is that not everything Ferris would want and more.

ps she sort of likes solomon. you don't want to date her.

Re: Ferris

[bambae]

Lmfao that is the exact opposite of Solomon

[valentinez.insanejournal.com]

Name: Z
What do they look for in a person?: Lol. Other than dating Ryan, Z honestly gives anyone a chance if they show interest and aren't an idiot. Or completely awful. I think those were her words. She's pretty open and interested in a lot of different stuff depending on what's going on with her life/feelings at the time. I would say she probably tends toward calmer, broodier types with soft centers. People who appreciate art. Survivors. On the other hand, though, getting her out of her own head and helping her calm down and ease up is a HUGE plus, so she gravitates toward friends and lovers who can make her laugh or give her peace.
What do they find romantic?: Z's not super romantic. Make her a mixtape or bring her some coffee or something. What she values most is time, I think.
Who do they have a crush on?: Ryan! ♥ If you're her friend or have been her friend for a while, though, there's probably been a moment or two where she's contemplated coming on to you.
Are they seeing someone right now?: Yes. She thinks it's going well -- definitely better than last time, though some of the same patterns are cropping up lately (on her end, anyway). She really wants it to be a good thing and to work, though.
What are they like in a relationship?: I think Z is a bit of a doter. She's very busy and often occupied with other things, but she worries about Ryan and is often wondering how he is, if he's okay, what she can do for him, etc. Like! super Virgo venus, honestly. ♥ She shows she cares for people by doing and giving and being a calm little rock for them.

That said, she absolutely has a difficult time owning up to or talking about her feelings beyond a kind of surface level a lot of the time, which causes problems. It's partly because she isn't sure how to explain herself, partly because she's often in denial about how she feels and doesn't want to "make an unintended choice" by vocalizing stuff. Basically -- if I ignore it, it's not there! She's doing her best lately though and is showing some improvements for sure. :D

I alsoooo feel like she's very physically affectionate, maybe a little silly with the person she loves -- she's like that with friends in general, I think, or tries to be, but it's different for Ryan or someone she's attached to in that way. Little boops on the nose, making faces, etc.
Anything else?: Hmmm
GIF Challenge:

ideal for Z
drinking and gazin' out on the scene

Ryan

[dooomcookie]

Name: Ryan Hertz

What do they look for in a person?: You mean he can't just say Z? Oh. Okay. Ryan doesn't really look. Like for real. He doesn't think anyone should want to date him, he's a mess and he is emotionally crippled and just why????? But naturally he gravitates towards those who are quiet, intelligent, not pushy (because he is bad at feelings, bad at sharing, just not very good at this why are you wanting to date him again?), understanding, patient. He really is a difficult nut to crack, and if you come at him too hard then he's going to back up real quick. But he also kind of needs a push to figure out he wants someone (thanks Chris!)
What do they find romantic?: Ryan doesn't really think in those terms. He still finds the idea of romance or love very scary and intimidating. (You mean he has to let someone in where they can inevitibly see how much he doesn't deserve them and leave, thus crushing his soul? Yikes) However, if presented with someone who can just sit with him without expecting grand speeches or shows of affection or just a lot then he can relax. Being intimate enough to open up like he did with Zoey about his dad is a huge step, and definitely something he finds he never knew he liked.
Who do they have a crush on?: Zoey ♥. He did also have a small one on Penny he didn't realize was a thing because feelings are HARD guys.
Are they seeing someone right now?: Yes, Zoey :) It's going well, he thinks. He's opened up to her more this time and is trying to keep with that trend. But he's still awkward and wonders if he's doing the right things. He wants it to work so is going to keep trying to open up, since she's like one of a very few people he feels he can open up to.
What are they like in a relationship?: Surprisingly, Ryan is a very gentle and affectionate boyfriend. He is uncomfortable with feelings, but wants his girlfriend to feel happy and comfortable with him. He wants to show that he's not the evil monster his dad says, or the awkward brooder he knows he is. He focuses a lot on making sure she has what she needs (though this time he's trying to be more open with his own thoughts and self too. Baby steps though) He also finds closeness and touch big staples for him, which is vastly surprising because he really really dislikes being touched (by most people) otherwise.
Anything else?: My little contradictory nugget over here. He is entirely oblivious to crushes (Sorry Penny!), so I apologize for him if he's ever hurt someone unknowingly.
GIF Challenge:

Re: Ryan

[valentinez.insanejournal.com]

so cute ;-;

Calvin Evercreech

[evercreep.insanejournal.com]

Name: Calvin Evercreech

What do they look for in a person?:
On a surface level, Calvin is drawn to people who are unusual. He's got a very inquisitive mind, and people who are odd and complicated interest him. He likes artists (all of his closest friends are artistically inclined) and unique thinkers. He's drawn to people who provide a counterpoint to how he goes about life and how he thinks, because it makes him reassess some of his own bad thought patterns.

But he also needs someone who won't make him feel uncomfortable or threatened. Calvin reacts really, reaaaaally negatively to threats, and falls really heavily on the fight side of "fight vs. flight" which makes it hard to get him to relax enough for a relationship. (Plus, it's just not really fun to be in a relationship with a guy who's constantly flipping out.) He wants to feel safe to express himself and assert his authority, which still feels like a luxury to him.

And he also likes people who can handle that he's brusque. He needs people with thick skin, or who at least won't misconstrue him as intentionally rude. So anyone who gives him the benefit of the doubt or reads sweetness into him really makes great progress appealing to Calvin.

What do they find romantic?:
Calvin finds mutual respect and affection to be ~*romantic*~. He wants to value their interests and ideals, and get the same in return. He's relatively independent, but wants to be involve and knowledgeable. For him it's a lot about careful balance and feeling like the investment is mutual.

He'll also find going very, very slow to be appealing, and won't want to be rushed. He's nervous, and slow to trust, so everything is built up to be a way bigger deal than it needs to be. Romance to him is slow, cautious and exploratory because he has some trust issues and needs to be approached like he's a skittish wild animal. He's probably going to be a virgin well into his late teens.

Who do they have a crush on?:
Cole. Which started popping up in the last month-ish. He's gone on a real journey with his relationship with Cole... which has been almost entirely one-sided. Calvin was soooo scared of Cole for reasons he knew were irrational. He was threatened by this attractive, intelligent and kind-hearted boy, and put him up on a pedestal so he could then irrationally despise him for being too perfect. But then he got to know Cole, and recognized that not only was he being unfair, but that Cole's... just a person. An extraordinary person, but he has struggles and makes mistakes like everyone, and becoming friends really humanized Cole.

He has his moments still of silly teen romantisizing because Cole is... so unusual it's easy to paint him as otherworldly and someone who needs protection, and Calvin is finding himself especially happy to indulge in those feelings. Cole's also not threatening, so Calvin can sit and work through his feelings in "privacy" because his crush is so oblivious. It's giving him the time he needs to think. Maybe too much time. Hazel will possibly push him to think more proactively.

Are they seeing someone right now?: Haha, no.

Calvin Evercreech p2, I've got a lot to say about this brat

[evercreep.insanejournal.com]

What are they like in a relationship?:
BOTTOMLESS WELL OF SUPPORT. YOU CAN DO NO WRONG IN HIS EYES. Calvin thinks the people he loves are beyond reproach. He will do some amazing mental gymnastics to always frame them as so reasonable, or at the very least completely justified. Nothing is ever really their fault. This means that he's easy to lead and take advantage of once you gain his trust, which is how he ended up in a bad spot back in Hogwarts. SPECIAL NOTE FOR COLE: This translates to tons and tons of patience for explaining things and translating for Cole when he needs it. Calvin doesn't see Cole's need for extra time/attention as burdensome at all. It's perfectly reasonable and Calvin is more than happy to detour to explain things to him.

He'd be very private and disinterested in showy romantic things. There's a lot of affection to be had, but it'll largely happen either behind closed doors, or through smaller gestures. He likes to care for people and take the lead, so he'll be happy doting on whoever he's dating. He'd be noticeably softer and less guarded, and willing to make jokes much more readily. Ultimately he's a little naive, so expect things to stay pretty innocent and for him to get OVERWHELMED by even small steps forward in the relationship.

Anything else?: Calvin used to sometimes secretly make out with his old horrible bully BFF and they were kind of an unfortunate codependent couple. He ran away to America basically to get away from Simon. Which is good, because that was only going to get worse for both of them as they grew up. There's only so much they could do at 13.

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