Some people chafe at the implication anyone else has even the slightest bit of power over them. I can't blame them, but I want to make sure they know where they stand in D&F. This isn't every violent student's playground.

Unfortunately, I reveal as many as I learn, and "sweet" is not an adjective I'd use for myself. I'm going to work on the former next year, but [...] probably not the latter. Still, your mum sounds like she has the right idea. You can pull that off.